since i can remember, i have been unable 2 have like a clique of friends.
especially girls. in a bid to aviod drama the best i could do was 2 friends from one clique.
however i just discovered the flaw in this my mode of operation.
most of my friends from individual cliques actually dont like each other.
that i can deal with, because i mean they only ever see each other when im having something, and im never having something.
but my friend steph and i decided to go to ghana with a couple of friends next month.
and na here this perfect plan began 2 fall apart.
we simply had no friends.
everyone wants 2 make such a trip with thier friends, and since we arent really part of any clique.
we decided to invite one of our friends who is everybody's friend. and was supposed 2 help us invite the boys.
but she wasnt interested.
and so our plan fell apart.
well since i have no friends, to go with, i proposed this to the lover.
who wasnt interested as well.
now i totally understand people who rent families at thier own weddings.
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I have mini-cliques of friends but tese mini-cliques are usually oceans away from each other. I've found out that for me to fit into a clique, I must like everyone in it and this rarely happens. I also feel like people change and friends are people. If we are no longer compatible in terms of mutual interests, proximity, literacy levels - It is really difficult to maintain such friends. Friends come and some go.
Maybe this is why I don't have a best friend, yet.
PS; Long-distance bestie-ship kills me
lol they kill everybody. and people are so strange and fickle.
which is why we must be our own best friends.
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