Realize, v; Realization, n.
When I turned 25, I hosted a very delicious party for all my friends in Dundee.
And when it was mid night, after cleaning up and all my guests had gone.
I stood there in the living room of my flat staring, pleased and elated.
Then it hit me, you never came, which was not fine.
You had no plans to come but that was fine.
Most important - you would never come.
And that was fine too.