On wednesdays my friend debo plays soccer with a bunch of his friends.
I go to offer moral support and make snide comments from the side lines.
I love the energy there and even more than the energy- I like that I have something to do on wednesdays.
Last week, he was hungry and came through with a bunch of his friends to eat eba and okro after the game at my house.
-side bar: If I had to find my calling, I will swear Eba and Okro is somewhere at the top.
So I made the eba and Okro- and offered to make pounded yam for Kay- who I havent seen in ages!
Anyways one of his friends seemed surprised that I could host so well. Even more so because apparently- I come across as someone who can not be bothered to cater to other people.
Nothing can be farther from the truth- while I have shut my doors to many people in my life- not because I hate them but simply because I am yet to find out who I can trust with my business- and right now the answer is no one.
That as an aside- I am a fabulous hostess. I might possess a career path is beer - palour-y and what not- all I need to do is learn how to make nkowbi and I am set for life.
I have also found extra amusing the incessant need that people have to post other people.
posting means to keep stringing someone along indefinitely till you are satisfied.
And because I can not understand how you as a person can you even have a certain mapped out plan for your life I can not seem to take you seriously. I would not even pretend to try to.
That as an aside.
What I find most amusing is the non stop washing that goes on in Lagos state.
I have a 9 -5 which might be an internship but I get up and go somewhere everyday.
But when I meet a male who at 5pm when I have closed from work is still in his pyjama's and is crying entrepreneur. seems like a valid scam to me.
More than a valid scam- seems like a lazy bastard telling lies. about everything.
Now I am not saying every entrepreneur is lazy and a scam artiste because he is in his pjays at 5pm after I have spent the whole day at work. There must be something in my subconcious that makes me so vary of such washer men.
I do not even know how to handle such people but just to give them space.
If you want to lie- take the lies to people who can be bothered.
I personally have had enough lies to last ten life times.
Anyways- What have you all been up too?
I found a bag I have been wanting to buy in such a delicious mint color! I am so pleased!
I can not wait for my new clothes- so I can start carrying the bag.
I am at such a good place- I have found that in the end, you will be fine.
Eventually- at the end, we will all be okay.