If you follow me on instagram, or you know me well enough in real life you will know by now that this post is LONGGGGG over due.
Because I live in the perpetual fear of Bad belle people and general negative energy
and people laughing at me when I got my heart broken in 2013 ( which inadvertently launched my baby girl career)-
but all this is neither here or there.
I got engaged.
Which means I am getting married.
Most likely in June.
Also- if you know me well enough you already know the answer to this question ( most likely because you have asked me or some one close to me)
I am not pregnant.
At least last time I checked I wasn't.
Am I excited?
OMG sometimes I stare at the ( quite snug- ps, did anyone get a ring that was actually her size?) ring on my finger and wonder
is this what I want?
Then I make a list.
But most times I am scared.
what if I make a rubbish wife.
The non- Yoruba man ( Thank you Jesus) I am getting married to has told me not to worry about my bed making skills- Because we are getting domestic HELP!
Yayyy and a driver too.
Another question I get from my really close friends is if I am ready/expentant since it is all so sudden.
and I am like y'all know I am always down for some good fun.
I am stressed about this I won't lie, constantly having bouts of " cold feet"
But the trick is to do it Afraid.
I am especially side eyeing all my travel situations this year.
I had this whole travel thing all planned out.
Whatever the case, I am still going to vegas in May ( maybe pull off that bridal shower that simi couldn't quite hack)
I get asked alot - if I like my ring.
LOL, It's this really really really cute ring.
I don't think it is really my person, But I am warming up to it.
And I did not think that would happen since I am pretty set in my ways.
Finally OMG the collective excitement and happiness and good will from everyone.
I amazing/overwhelming/ slightly amusing.
Since I do not remember ever being excited for anyone getting engaged.
I am in awe of how magnanimous people are.
My friend said its because they are praying for the same thing to happen to them.
Whatever the case. I am uber thankful.
So Bennie and Lekan, I hope you are both happy that I have blogged about this major event.
Alsooooooo- this goes sans saying- my Mother is super stoked.
Between her, My future mother inlaw and my wedding planner
I am positive I will have no gist for you guys.